Welcome to Compatible Connections

You Deserve True Love!

We’re a boutique coaching firm that works exclusively with widowed and divorced women across all 50 states.

Most divorcées and widows are petrified at the thought of dating.  They haven’t been on a date in years, and they have no idea where to begin.

Our services teach our clients how to become confident, conscious daters.

Our mission is to show every woman we work with how to find true love after loss or divorce.

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What is Compatibility? Why is it Important?

Most women date randomly, allowing things like first impressions, chemistry, or sheer physical attraction to lead them into one bad relationship after another.  While chemistry is an undeniably important part of any romance, it’s a poor predicator of a relationship’s long-term success.

Compatibility, on the other hand, is like the glue that holds a relationship together.  It’s the foundation on which you and your partner build happy lives together.  Compatible partners share lifestyle choices, habits, interests, core beliefs, and personal goals.  They’re attracted to one another, yes, but their attraction is based on a deep and meaningful connection that extends beyond an initial spark or a great first date.

To find genuinely compatible connections, women need to learn how to date deliberately.  They need to take time to reacquaint themselves with what’s really important to them.  And they need to learn, practice, and cultivate the surprisingly simple techniques that can steer them towards men that will bring them the love they so richly deserve.


Explore our Website

Our website was designed to be a resource for fabulous single women just like you, and we invite you to explore it using the navigation menu at the top of this page!

To learn the basics about who we are and what we do, read A Letter from Coach Bernadette, which I wrote to introduce myself to prospective clients, as well as our FAQ page, which answers some frequently asked questions about our mission, our ideal client, our products and services, and more.  To see what previous clients are saying about us, you can check out their Raves.

No website is complete without a Blog, and ours features short, informative posts to help you get the most of dating after divorce or the loss of a loved one.  It’s also a place where you can find valuable dating tips.  If you’d like, you can also subscribe to quarterly newsletter, The Meet-Cute, or take a Quiz to help you identify your current dating strengths and weaknesses.

We offer a variety of products and services, at a variety of price points, aimed at helping single women become confident and conscious daters.  Whether you’re looking for practical advice about a specific dating challenge, struggling to write a winning profile, looking for help replying to prospective dates, or you’re ready to enroll in a one-on-one Signature Series, you can find all the information you’ll need to get started under the Explore Our Services drop-down menu.

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Coach Bernadette

We understand that every women’s situation is unique and that you might still have questions you’d like to ask us.  If you want to learn more about our business, how a deeper understanding of compatibility can transform your love life, or you’d just like to explore how our products and services can help you, please use our site to schedule a complimentary 20-minute Discovery Session.

You can also reach us via e-mail at bernadettemsmith@compatibleconnections.biz or by phone at 215-968-4694.