Ready to Find True Love? Here are 5 Things You Need to Start Doing NOW!

Imagine what it would be like if you knew exactly what you needed to find true love. This is not an impossible dream! This is an attainable reality!
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In this post, I’ll discuss 5 simple things you can start doing every day to find true love.

1. Let go of taking things personally.

Remember no matter what happens after that first date it has nothing to do with you. Thinking thoughts: “I just dodged a bullet.” “He was pretty good, can’t wait to meet my soul mate.” “I like me better.” “You deserve true love.”

2. Let go of what other people think.

Don’t let other people influence your actions. Remember this rule of thumb: when you put yourself out there authentically 10% of people will hate it, 80% will be indifferent, and 10% will be your raving fans! And raving fans are awesome make them your tribal people.

3. Let go of something you’re not.

Your soul mate can’t find you if you pretend to be something you’re not. There are somethings about ourselves we can’t change and that’s a good thing. Own who you are and celebrate your uniqueness.

4. Let go of the need to be perfect.

 Never let anyone make you feel bad about yourself. There is a lid for every pot! There’s a quote that sits on my desk I read to clients and it goes like this: While you’re busy looking for the perfect person, you’ll probably miss the imperfect person who could make you perfectly happy.


5.  Let go of “should-ing” on yourself.

Mistakes are opportunities to do things differently. Keep the faith and remember this: one day someone is going to hug you so tight that all of your broken pieces will stick back together. You deserve true love!

Wishing You All The Best in Life & Love,

Coach Bernadette

Bernadette M. Smith, MCC

Bernadette M. Smith, MCC

Bernadette M. Smith, MCC, is a certified dating & relationship expert with over a decade’s worth of experience. She is the founder of Compatible Connections, a boutique coaching firm that specializes in helping divorced women become confident, conscious daters.

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