Resources for Divorced Daters

Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man

In this book, Steve Harvey, has a sincere desire to help women learn how men think. He is the first male author I know willing to literally throw men under the bus! Harvey pull no punches, and tells his readers what men really are thinking! You'll enjoy his stories.

Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus

This is the best book John Gray wrote. It's the foundation to understanding men and how men and women communicate differently. Once you understand it's just the way it is … life, dating, and relationships become easier! There's no “fixing”!

Attached: The New Science Of Adult Attachment

Levine and Heller guide readers in determining what attachment style they and their mate (or potential mate) follow, offering a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections with the people they love.

In The Meantime

You'll find this book to be one of your favorites. It's a great place to begin as a divorcee as you put your pieces of yourself and your life back together again. It's a fun and educational read. You'll definitely learn something new about yourself in each chapter!

Every living being wants to experience the light of love. The problem is that our windows are dirty! The windows of our hearts and minds are streaked with past pains and hurts, past memories and disappointments. In this book, Iyanla Vanzant teaches us how to do our mental housekeeping so that we can clean the windows, floors, walls, closets, and corners of our minds. If we do a good job, our spirits will shine bringing in the light of true love and happiness.

Spiritual Divorce

Divorce rocks the very foundation of our beings, leaving us feeling lonely, flawed, enraged, undesirable, hopeless, and empty. In Spiritual Divorce, Debbie Ford reveals how this devastation can be transformed into a profoundly enlightening experience. This empowering guide shows how the collapse of a marriage is, at root, a spiritual wake-up call, an opportunity to liberate ourselves and reclaim our lives. The end of a relationship—no matter who ends it—is a damaging moment. Ford offers a clear program for turning ruin into renewal.

The Power of Vulnerability

Brené Brown studies human connection — our ability to empathize, belong, love. In a poignant, funny talk, she shares a deep insight from her research, one that sent her on a personal quest to know herself as well as to understand humanity. A talk to share.

You Can't Always Trust Your Gut About Dating & Mating

Your gut instincts about love could be strong--yet WRONG! Learn how to get rid of what gets in the way of your intuition being accurate, and how to use surprising tips to "read" people--and you--correctly.

LeslieBeth Wish, Ed.D., MA, MSS, is an award-winning psychotherapist and author, nationally honored for her pioneering research about women's issues about love, trauma, career, and intuition. Her book "Smart Relationships" is based on research with thousands of women. She says when something “bothers” her that she cannot fully explain she does research.

How Changing Your Story Can Change Your Life

Stories help you make sense of your life -- but when these narratives are incomplete or misleading, they can keep you stuck instead of providing clarity. In an actionable talk, psychotherapist and advice columnist Lori Gottlieb shows how to break free from the stories you've been telling yourself by becoming your own editor and rewriting your narrative from a different point of view.

Happiness Lessons

Professor Laurie Santos joins Dr Mark Williamson for an inspiring conversation sharing life-changing findings from the science of happiness. This was broadcast as an Action for Happiness webinar on 11 June 2020.

Why She Feel In Love With You

Love takes time - it doesn't happen overnight. We fall in love with someone when they show us, consistently, that they're willing to put our needs ahead of their own. It's the small, seemingly insignificant actions that add up over time, until one day we realize, “I love them.”